The Midlife Reframe
An 8-day, online bootcamp for women navigating the psychological, emotional and identity shifts of midlife and perimenopause.
8 days | 15 minutes per day | Lasting change  Â
Something has shifted.Â
You might feel sharp one moment and foggy the next.Â
More reactive, or unexpectedly flat.Â
Less certain of who you are becoming.Â
Perimenopause is often described as a physical transition, but it’s a psychological one too.
The Midlife Reframe guides you through a process to make sense of these changes, reconnect with what matters most, and build practical tools to move forward with clarity and self-trust. Â
What you'll gain
Over 8 days you will:Â
- Understand what’s happening in your brain and whyÂ
- Reconnect with your values, strengths and sense of identityÂ
- Build psychological resilience and self-trustÂ
- Clarify what matters in your next chapterÂ
- Develop tools to navigate change with confidenceÂ
- Connect with other women having similar experiencesÂ
How it works
Designed for busy lives and busy brains.
The bootcamp includes:
- Short, clear videos
- Daily micro-reflections or practical exercises
- Community prompts to connect with other women
- Reusable tools you can return to beyond the 8 days
- One live session
- The Fluxx Midlife Pulse, a personalised assessment
Choose your start date
The Midlife Reframe is delivered in small cohorts. You'll move through the experience alongside the same group of women which creates connection, shared momentum, and the kind of insight that comes from knowing others are navigating the same terrain.
Select the start date that works for you.
The Midlife Reframe Bootcamp
Mon 27 APRIL - Mon 4 MAY 2026
$259
The Midlife Reframe Bootcamp
Wed 13 MAY - Wed 20 MAY 2026
$259Â
These dates don't work for you?
Join the waiting list and we'll let you know as soon as the next cohort opens.
This bootcamp is for you if:Â
- You’re noticing shifts in motivation, confidence, identity or emotional steadiness
- You want evidence-informed tools, not trends or hot takes Â
- You’re ready to invest 15 minutes a day in meaningful reflectionÂ
This bootcamp is not for you if:Â Â
- You’re seeking medical advice or clinical symptom treatmentÂ
- You want a quick, single-step, tick box
solution - You’re in acute distress and need immediate professional support Â
Note: This is not therapy or clinical treatment. It focuses on reflection, learning and practical tools rather than diagnosis or medical care. If you are experiencing mental health concerns, please seek appropriate support.Â
Research shows that how you think and feel about perimenopause really matters.
Women who are informed tend to feel more hopeful and capable of handling what’s happening, and report fewer symptoms with better overall wellbeing.Â
Why this bootcamp exists  Â
In her late 40s, Berni was navigating perimenopause while stepping into senior leadership, experiencing firsthand the cognitive and identity shifts this transition can bring.
In her early 40s, Nic was noticing a different signal: the cultural messaging about women’s midlife flooding her social feeds, often suggesting that something dreadful was coming.
From these different vantage points, they noticed the same gap.
Where was the work that helped women understand what was happening to their brains, their emotions and their sense of self?
They couldn’t find it. So they built it.
Drawing on applied psychology, professional practice, and countless conversations with women navigating midlife, the Midlife Reframe was created to help you move through this stage of life feeling steadier, clearer and more confident.
What women say
Audrey J
"It’s like strength training, but for your identity. It helped me carve out space for myself, clarify my strengths and values, and recognise the importance of self-reflection."
Anna B
"Nic and Berni bring their warmth into a moment in life where it often feels missing. Being seen, believed and valued for showing up, they reminded me that my experience held power."
Nadya C
"This course is bite-sized - small enough to dive in - but super-charged with distilled understanding and empathy. I could take a deep breath doing this course - it gave me insight and space to explore."Â
Guided by Berni and Nic
Behaviour change specialists. Adult learning designers. Midlifers!Â
We work at the intersection of applied psychology, adult learning and sustainable behaviour change. We’re also in our 40s and 50s, navigating our own midlife transitions, which shapes how we think about what actually helps.Â
You’ll hear from us every day, clearly, calmly, and without fluff.Â
FAQsÂ
What if I miss a day?
Is this therapy or medical advice?
What if I'm not sure I'm perimenopausal?
How is this different from just reading a book or listening to a podcast?
When does the next cohort start?
How much time will this take each day?
Do I need any background knowledge of psychology?
Is there interaction with other participants?
I’m feeling quite overwhelmed right now. Is this the right time?
What if I’m already doing a lot of personal development?
Ready to begin?
Choose your start date and reserve your place.
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